How to Secure a Second Date
Written by Ronald Bao
Do you really think your job is over after successfully getting a first date? Don’t be a fool! Your job is to get the first date, then the second, then the third. Until two single people become a couple, when you no longer need a profile with Heartcade anymore. That is our ultimate mission for you.
In this article, I will show you ways to help you secure a second date.
Express your feelings
This couldn’t get any simpler. On your first date, if you find the other person your ideal type and would like to get to know them better, simply tell them. “I really like you”, “we should do this again” or something similar. It’s hard work, I know. This works because of a simple theory, we like people who like us. Let them know you are having fun, stay engaged, and don’t be afraid to tell them how you feel.
Learn to flirt
On your first date you have to make sure your date sees you more than just a friend. By using correct flirting techniques, you will make them see you in a different light. At the end of the day, if they don’t see you as someone that they could have a physical relationship with, you won’t be considered more than a friend. If you are new in the flirting department, make sure to check out HOTAPE and some other flirting techniques that are easily accessible online.
Stay intriguing
A common first date mistake is people talking nonstop, telling their date everything they could possibly think of, afraid of running out of topics to say. This is a big no-no. By exposing too much about yourself to your date too quickly would often result in them losing interest in you. What you want to do is to keep your date wondering. The uncertainty will intrigue your date which always leads to second, third, forth dates. This allows your date to get to know you gradually over time.
Be prepared
If you are going on your first date, I would assume that you are attracted to your date in some ways or another. It never hurts to go prepared. Dressing nice on a first date is a great way to show your date that you care, that you actually took the time to try to look sharp for them. Another way to prepare for your date is by looking back at your chat history and picking out some interesting topics you would like to talk about. Keep in mind don’t go too far by initiating a conversation on their Florida trip back in 2007.
These above four tips might not seem very complicated but they are the key to winning you your second date.
Good luck ladies and gents. Be prepared, flirt a bit, stay mysterious and never be afraid to express your feelings.
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